Year of the blog: Day #26

Year of the blog: Day #26 - Choices.

January 28th, 2018

Day #26

I've always had it in my mind, when given a choice to be right and kind, choose kind.
When given a difficult situation, never lose myself or who I evolved to be, to swear or become annoyed.

But lately, I've been growing annoyed a lot, because my comfort zone has zoned out and personal space has apparently spaced out too. But is that reason enough for me to let out a few swear words (totally unintentionally), albeit it was merely once?

No.
When you do something you don't really do often, still it makes the first impression about you to someone else. And even if there is no one involved, doing something "wrong", even if it's very small, makes your heart very sick. Especially when it is not often.
I remind myself again, when given a choice to be right and kind, choose to be kind and right, never rude and right. When given a choice to speak good words or swear, always choose good words. Even if the entire world chooses to cuss. Because remember, that's who you've always been. And if you cuss, well, choose your wording correctly. Choose what you think is right.

- M

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